Radical Incrementalism – Bend Your Future

Radical Incrementalism – Bend Your Future

What if you changed how you “show up” in the world? I’d argue that it could positively alter your life. That said, it’s tough, if not impossible, to be a ‘new you’ in one fell swoop. But the good news is that big changes are possible if you make small shifts on an...
Watch Yourself (No, Seriously, Watch Yourself!)

Watch Yourself (No, Seriously, Watch Yourself!)

  We like to do things fast. “Clear the to-do list.”             “Check the box.”              “Done.” Our need for speed will almost always backfire when we’re trying to make changes to our behaviors or mindset. To make a sustainable change, we need to slow down...
Helping Employees Become Better Versions of Themselves

Helping Employees Become Better Versions of Themselves

I wanted to share a few thoughts on a book I’m reading called “An Everyone Culture – Becoming a Deliberately Developmental Organization” by Robert Kegan and Lisa Lahey. This book is exciting for organizations that want to create a culture where people can become...
Interference and Improving Your Attention

Interference and Improving Your Attention

You, like most of us, have a tough time “paying attention.” You know it would serve you to be better at it. Yet it’s still a challenge. What if you had a new way of viewing what’s pulling at your attention that also helps you be more focused? I have found a framework...
Be Your Best Self

Be Your Best Self

You Can’t Always Choose What Happens to You. Wow. I did not vote for Donald Trump…so in a very literal way I did not “choose” this scenario. However, as we all know by now, the scenario is real. I often say, sometimes rather glibly, “you can’t always choose what...
Where Do You Get In Your Own Way?

Where Do You Get In Your Own Way?

Do any of these tendencies seem like you? I frequently interrupt others when they are speaking. I am too easily distracted (emails, texts, etc.) during meetings and/or conversations. I talk too much in meetings (i.e., I “take up too much space”). I don’t speak up in...